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The thing with control is that it often reveals our deepest and truest desires. Right now, in fact most of your life, you have been trying to control. You’ve been attempting to control the outside conditions in order to create a world around you that doesn’t dig into your sore spots or push your triggers. Surrounding yourself with people who don’t challenge you, but who keep the same limiting beliefs as you do, so you can stay safe and small.…

Let go of expectations of how this experience should be. Let go of expectations of who you should be, as you ascend. You don’t know who you will be in this higher consciousness, only that it is perfect. But your idea of the higher consciousness is likely very limiting, so if you cling to this idea and image of who you are becoming, you are going to struggle in shifting into more authenticity as this authentic self does not align…

Question: I’ve gained weight the past year or so, and I’m ashamed of how I look. How can I lose the weight? The way you feel about your creation is reflecting how you feel about parts of yourself. Your body is showing you how you feel about yourself. There are parts of yourself that you are shamed of, and that brings up pain. You create this pattern of eating so that you may experience this shame. You feel shame for…

Question: Why do I have headaches all the time? I notice my neck and shoulders hurt too. Answer from Laurel: When you are having physical symptoms over a long period of time, the same symptoms, such as migraine, that is a sign that there is some way of thinking/being that is not beneficial to you. You have a way of being that is causing you pain. The hunching of the shoulders, would you not say that is a way of…

I try to control myself but I can’t. It seems to just make it all worse. But I fear the consequences of not controlling myself!————Are you some monster to be controlled? How can that work with the monster controlling the monster? If the one controlling is as damaged as the one he is trying to control, how can the result be of any value? You must decide. Either you are good enough and do not need controlling, or you are…

Letting go of your illusions can be difficult. And fearful.You have never been more in control of your experience than you are now. Awareness is control. Allowing is control. You only thought you were in control when you were living in the dark. The illusion of being in control made life livable despite a great deal of fear within you. Now you must be courageous and realize that both the control and the fear are hinders to your evolution. Once…

Within you is the control center. Your heart and your head is what controls your world. The head that holds your beliefs and the heart that holds your emotions. Outside of you this image is projected onto your reality, your world. The world you inhabit is created completely and solely on the system you have within you. Every little detail in your outside reality is first created within you. To try to control from the outside is useless. The control…

Transcription from a Group call/video: Question to Laurel: So, lately, I’ve been feeling out of sorts. I could just jump out of my body and I understand that this could mean some type of a shift. Is this truly a shift to a different level or is my Inner Being trying to like shake me up and say, ‘Hey, you need to pay attention in another direction’? LAUREL’s answer:  This is the shift. You know this. You don’t need anyone…

And I said to her: “Because I believe in their power. I don’t believe in mine”. You don’t believe in your power. You don’t believe you are powerful. You do believe that others are. Somehow you can see power in them, but refuse to acknowledge your own. Somehow you see a part of your power reflected in them, and you believe the reflection is their power. What you don’t see is that the original, the power you see a tiny…

Q: I hear over and over that this is a feeling Universe/reality and the key to manifesting one’s  desires is to  “feel” good as much and as often as you can.  However, our spiritual leaders warn that if you set the intention to “feel good” in order to realize your desires; you are actually trying to control the conditions and you will block that which you want from entering your reality.  So my question is….how can I feel good without…

My sister keeps criticizing everything I say and do! How do I deal with her? Part II: Why do you not respect yourself? What is so wrong in you that you do not deserve to see yourself as good enough? What is so horrible in you that you do not deserve your own complete acceptance and love? Could it be that there is nothing wrong? Could it be that you are simply refusing to accept your own perfection? Could it…

Into the great unknown you go. Because it truly is great, and your future moments are always unknown. When you have a steady job, a home you own, and a relationship agreed upon in front of God and signed before the state, you believe you can predict your future. You believe you can know what is coming. You feel safe and secure, knowing what you have planned and are expecting will indeed occur as you predicted. What a joke! Your…

Society has so many rules for you. Rules to make sure you don’t believe too highly of yourself, and thus find your own power. It is easier to control a crowd who believe they are powerless, then it is to control those who know they are free and powerful. By giving in to your shame you are giving in to those who want to control you. By feeling shame for who you are you are allowing the rules of society,…

My strong dislike of others trying to control me?———————————– You perceive others trying to control you. If it is true or not, you have no way of knowing. Your perception is what matters. Why do you care? You know their perceived control over you is an illusion. So why do you care? Because YOU want to be in control. You are fighting the enemy for control over the conditions. You see yourself as part of the conditions, and the conditions…

Q/A about free will: Nothing is random. Free will is a part of the rules on Gaia, but this free will is countered by the plans that your Inner being is conducting into creation for you. You have free will, but you will always be operating within a certain window of opportunities that you Inner Being has created for you in order to steer you towards your ultimate exploration of who you truly are. With the shattered focus that you…

I hate it when people force me to do things I don’t want. Like a stranger grabbing me for a hug, or my neighbor playing music so I have to listen. These things bring up the same feeling that other peoples wants are more important than mine.——-Nothing is more important in your life than your perspective, your thoughts and your feelings. That is what creates your reality. You choose your perspective. No one else can force it upon you. When…

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