Tag

controllingconditions

Browsing

Question: Why do I have headaches all the time? I notice my neck and shoulders hurt too. Answer from Laurel: When you are having physical symptoms over a long period of time, the same symptoms, such as migraine, that is a sign that there is some way of thinking/being that is not beneficial to you. You have a way of being that is causing you pain. The hunching of the shoulders, would you not say that is a way of…

When you are being guided by the Divine plan you are following the path of your inner being. Your inner being knows more than you do, about where you want to go and how to get there. Your inner being wishes to guide you to the easiest and most joy-filled path available to you. But you resist. You resist out of fear, trying to control your life, because letting go of control seems too scary. It seems impossible to just…

Letting go of your illusions can be difficult. And fearful.You have never been more in control of your experience than you are now. Awareness is control. Allowing is control. You only thought you were in control when you were living in the dark. The illusion of being in control made life livable despite a great deal of fear within you. Now you must be courageous and realize that both the control and the fear are hinders to your evolution. Once…

Within you is the control center. Your heart and your head is what controls your world. The head that holds your beliefs and the heart that holds your emotions. Outside of you this image is projected onto your reality, your world. The world you inhabit is created completely and solely on the system you have within you. Every little detail in your outside reality is first created within you. To try to control from the outside is useless. The control…

Transcription from a Group call/video: Question to Laurel: So, lately, I’ve been feeling out of sorts. I could just jump out of my body and I understand that this could mean some type of a shift. Is this truly a shift to a different level or is my Inner Being trying to like shake me up and say, ‘Hey, you need to pay attention in another direction’? LAUREL’s answer:  This is the shift. You know this. You don’t need anyone…

Q: I hear over and over that this is a feeling Universe/reality and the key to manifesting one’s  desires is to  “feel” good as much and as often as you can.  However, our spiritual leaders warn that if you set the intention to “feel good” in order to realize your desires; you are actually trying to control the conditions and you will block that which you want from entering your reality.  So my question is….how can I feel good without…

It is a wonderful thing to be focused on your feelings, and also the feelings of fear. What is not helpful is when you create an identity for yourself based on those feelings. It is not helpful to create an identity at all, but even less so when this identity is built around what you perceive as a negative trait in your personality. Your ability to process fear is quite marvelous. Your ability to notice fear is quite marvelous. You…

This urge to control how others behave in your reality is a need for control. You believe others should be small and unobtrusive, because that is what you believe you need to be. It brings up fear when others are not following the rules you have agreed upon. Why can they be so large when you must be small? You feel like they are crushing you with their freedom and their power, because you feel safe only when others stay…

You feel insecure because you do not trust yourself. You worry what the future might bring, and this worry manifests into your now moment as insecurity. You are enough. You are a powerful creator. You have always been enough. You have always been powerful. Even though it feels like you are not in control of your life, you are. You are in control in every way. You inner being, who you really are, is guiding you on your path, and…

Q;Before I found out about the teachings of Joshua, I came across Law of Attraction in books. Quite many of them mentioned the process of thinking from the end or something similar, for example, focusing on the vision what you want, or acting as if you already have it. As I have been absorbing the teachings of Joshua, these processes look now like just another way of controlling the conditions. But there seems to be some truth in them too.…

There is nothing wrong in leaving a marriage, and there is nothing wrong in staying. When you are making decisions for your own life, you need to think about how this will affect you. Not what your kids, or your family, or what your friends think. They have their own lives. Whatever you do will be perfect for them. It may not feel that way in the moment, but ultimately this is a co-creation and every situation is an opportunity…

I hate it when people force me to do things I don’t want. Like a stranger grabbing me for a hug, or my neighbor playing music so I have to listen. These things bring up the same feeling that other peoples wants are more important than mine.——-Nothing is more important in your life than your perspective, your thoughts and your feelings. That is what creates your reality. You choose your perspective. No one else can force it upon you. When…

Pin It