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Everyone is experiencing their lives in unique ways. What is painful to you might be enjoyable to someone else. Perspective is unique and so your judgment will always be limiting and limited when you try to interpret what an experience means to another person. There is always more love available in all lessons, there is always a higher perspective. Be aware of how attached you are when you judge someone else and how right or wrong their experience is. What is…

I try to control myself but I can’t. It seems to just make it all worse. But I fear the consequences of not controlling myself!————Are you some monster to be controlled? How can that work with the monster controlling the monster? If the one controlling is as damaged as the one he is trying to control, how can the result be of any value? You must decide. Either you are good enough and do not need controlling, or you are…

Letting go of your illusions can be difficult. And fearful.You have never been more in control of your experience than you are now. Awareness is control. Allowing is control. You only thought you were in control when you were living in the dark. The illusion of being in control made life livable despite a great deal of fear within you. Now you must be courageous and realize that both the control and the fear are hinders to your evolution. Once…

Picture that who you really are is someone sitting on the sofa, watching a movie. The movie is your life, your reality, and the main character is the role you play in this life, who you believe you are. So the real you is the observer. What you’re sensing is that it’s someone far far behind, it’s someone back in the shades. You’re sensing that, but the distance is not really real. If you look at the screen where the…

The word love holds its own vibration. That is the vibration that is unique, that comes from the letters and the word, how it’s pronounced. Then there is the vibration of love energy, that is also infused in the word love. Then there is the vibration that comes from millennia of years when people have been saying that word, like a mantra. That is another power that is infused in the word. As you write “love” you infuse your own…

Oh! I have been receiving all kinds of appreciation, and yet I still believe appreciation is only proven through money! There you go! You believe that words are empty, but money shows the real love and appreciation. When people give from their hearts and share their feelings with you, telling you how amazing they think you are, you disregard it. You disregard the abundance of appreciation that is showered upon you every hour of every day. For you, love is…

You cannot find what is “not enough” in you because it is an illusion. It does not exist. It is not there. As you created yourself, as you chose your traits, your body and your personality, you chose a complete package. If you had been born with only one arm, that would still be a complete package. In all of creation there is nothing incomplete. The dark holes of the Universe, the “empty” places, are not empty. They are not…

Just like the experiences you are having are fleeting moments being lived by you, the observer, so is this life that you are living a fleeting moment being experienced by Source. Your thoughts and sensations, your feelings and your experiences in your world, all of this is being lived and experienced through the person you are existing as, and observed by your soul. Your soul, who you really are, is perceiving existence through the name and the body, and the…

This urge to control how others behave in your reality is a need for control. You believe others should be small and unobtrusive, because that is what you believe you need to be. It brings up fear when others are not following the rules you have agreed upon. Why can they be so large when you must be small? You feel like they are crushing you with their freedom and their power, because you feel safe only when others stay…

If you perceive that you are not enough for someone else, it is because you believe you are not enough. What others think of you is a reflection of their own inner struggles or delights, so you can never base their perception of you on anything outside of them. What you think others think of you, that is a reflection of what you think of you. The opinions you project onto them are really yours. You are using them to…

Society has so many rules for you. Rules to make sure you don’t believe too highly of yourself, and thus find your own power. It is easier to control a crowd who believe they are powerless, then it is to control those who know they are free and powerful. By giving in to your shame you are giving in to those who want to control you. By feeling shame for who you are you are allowing the rules of society,…

The presence of money or the lack of money is still seen as proof of who you are. You believe adults should provide for themselves. In most cases through work, a job, but if you have kids you are allowed to be provided for by your spouse. You have all these rules for abundance. How much you are allowed to have, not too much or you will experience the wrath of your fellow humans who do not have as much.…

When others don’t follow the rules you have agreed upon, it makes you insecure. Rules make you feel safe. They give you an opportunity to feel accepted, and give you a measurable way of knowing if you are good enough, or not, and how good or how bad you are. When you don’t follow the rules you feel a lot of guilt, believing it makes you unworthy and unlovable. When others don’t follow the rules you believe they are also…

Making mistakes and the shame of others knowing I made a mistake?—-You never really make those mistakes. When you perceive you have made a mistake it is a reflection of your beliefs. The reflection is of who you believe you are. You believe you are flawed. You believe you make mistakes. You believe making mistakes is wrong and so you feel shame when others see you doing this. You believe they now can see how you are not deserving of…

In the non-physical we float in and out of groups. Some of us tend to stick to the same groups and others go all over. A group can consist of millions of souls, or just two. It differs all the time. The knowledge that is received by you all on Gaia is knowledge that is available to us all, so there is no ownership to knowledge, and no one person holds any knowledge to themselves. All is shared because we…

My strong dislike of others trying to control me?———————————– You perceive others trying to control you. If it is true or not, you have no way of knowing. Your perception is what matters. Why do you care? You know their perceived control over you is an illusion. So why do you care? Because YOU want to be in control. You are fighting the enemy for control over the conditions. You see yourself as part of the conditions, and the conditions…

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