Question: Why do I have headaches all the time? I notice my neck and shoulders hurt too. Answer from Laurel: When you are having physical symptoms over a long period of time, the same symptoms, such as migraine, that is a sign that there is some way of thinking/being that is not beneficial to you. You have a way of being that is causing you … Continue reading Controlling leads to pain
When you are being guided by the Divine plan you are following the path of your inner being. Your inner being knows more than you do, about where you want to go and how to get there. Your inner being wishes to guide you to the easiest and most joy-filled path available to you. But you resist. You resist out of fear, trying to control … Continue reading Surrendering into the Divine Plan
I try to control myself but I can’t. It seems to just make it all worse. But I fear the consequences of not controlling myself!————Are you some monster to be controlled? How can that work with the monster controlling the monster? If the one controlling is as damaged as the one he is trying to control, how can the result be of any value? You … Continue reading The monster within
Letting go of your illusions can be difficult. And fearful.You have never been more in control of your experience than you are now. Awareness is control. Allowing is control. You only thought you were in control when you were living in the dark. The illusion of being in control made life livable despite a great deal of fear within you. Now you must be courageous … Continue reading The illusion of control and the fear it creates
You feel insecure because you do not trust yourself. You worry what the future might bring, and this worry manifests into your now moment as insecurity. You are enough. You are a powerful creator. You have always been enough. You have always been powerful. Even though it feels like you are not in control of your life, you are. You are in control in every … Continue reading Feeling insecure
There is nothing wrong in leaving a marriage, and there is nothing wrong in staying. When you are making decisions for your own life, you need to think about how this will affect you. Not what your kids, or your family, or what your friends think. They have their own lives. Whatever you do will be perfect for them. It may not feel that way … Continue reading Ending the relationship?
I hate it when people force me to do things I don’t want. Like a stranger grabbing me for a hug, or my neighbor playing music so I have to listen. These things bring up the same feeling that other peoples wants are more important than mine.——-Nothing is more important in your life than your perspective, your thoughts and your feelings. That is what creates … Continue reading Am I really being forced?