If it was easy, you would have done it a long time ago, would you not? But it doesn’t have to be hard work. When you practice sports, or anything else that you enjoy doing, it is hard work but also great fun, isn’t it? The hard work only loses it’s charm when you focus too much on only the end product, and when every … Continue reading Why is it so hard to change my beliefs?
Everything in your reality has something to do with you. If you feel there is a health scare in your outside conditions, this is a reflection of your belief in a power outside of you, that is greater than you and that can harm you. If you believe you can get any illness without being a match to that illness, and without you attracting this, … Continue reading Corona virus – what is it all about?
Letting go of your illusions can be difficult. And fearful.You have never been more in control of your experience than you are now. Awareness is control. Allowing is control. You only thought you were in control when you were living in the dark. The illusion of being in control made life livable despite a great deal of fear within you. Now you must be courageous … Continue reading The illusion of control and the fear it creates
Q: My grandson is misbehaving, and his mother does not know how to handle him. How do I deal with this? Laurel’s answer: So you would like your grandson to change and be more like you want him to be? That he should change so life gets easier for you and his mother? You believe he needs to limit himself in order to not upset … Continue reading Kids who won’t be controlled
TRANSCRIPTED FROM LAUREL’S GROUP SESSION Isabelle: Is that why you say fear is nonexistent? LAUREL: Fear is part of love. Fear is a nuance of love. Everything that exists is love. So fear is a nuance of love, just like acceptance is a nuance of love. Hatred is a nuance of love. It is two ends of the same stick. It’s unwanted and wanted. Unwanted … Continue reading Potentiality explained, and the wanted with unwanted
You believe you are not good enough. You believe you should be different. You believe that what you can do and can’t do (well enough) means something about who you are. You believe that how you perform in certain activities means something about who you ARE. You believe that how you perform in certain activities means something about how worthy you are of love. You … Continue reading You are not who you think you are
It is a wonderful thing to be focused on your feelings, and also the feelings of fear. What is not helpful is when you create an identity for yourself based on those feelings. It is not helpful to create an identity at all, but even less so when this identity is built around what you perceive as a negative trait in your personality. Your ability … Continue reading The identity that creates your dream life
Q: How do I find inspiration at work? I feel like I am not good enough at what I do… A: Who you are is more than your job. Who you are is perfect, limitless, complete. You are love energy. What you sometimes do is create art. Do you see the distinction? You ARE perfect, you are wonderful and amazing and powerful, and you DO … Continue reading How do I find inspiration in my job?
Q: I feel bad for not pushing through fear more of the time. Or quicker. I should be better and do more! A: What an interesting expansion! To feel as Source in moments, and to have this contrast of believing you are not enough, you should be more, you should live differently than the life you are creating now. In every now moment you are … Continue reading The focus that creates
This urge to control how others behave in your reality is a need for control. You believe others should be small and unobtrusive, because that is what you believe you need to be. It brings up fear when others are not following the rules you have agreed upon. Why can they be so large when you must be small? You feel like they are crushing … Continue reading The Mastery of your Reality