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Pushing through fear is rarely the bliss you might believe it is. Pushing through fear is difficult. It’s hard and there is a push. It is a push because you need to use force. You need to force yourself to do it. Pushing through fear sounds glorious. It sounds like this wonderful action. This wonderful action of love and joy. But it rarely is. Most of the time pushing through fear is very very uncomfortable. It’s uncomfortable because of the…

Because you have lived around other people, there are expectations about who you should be. Based on who you were in the past, there is an image for you to live up to, being the same today as you were yesterday. This is to make yourself and others feel safe. If you were good enough yesterday, you must be so today. Does that mean that if you were not enough yesterday, you could not be enough today? You decide how,…

The ideal that you have created for yourself, the idea of what it means to be worthy of love; does not exist. No one in your life is living up to that ideal. If it seems like they are, it is because you do not know them. You cannot possibly know their every thought, their judgments and their feelings. You can only know yourself. And you have measured yourself and decided you are not good enough. You do not live…

Who decides what you deserve? Who judges and decides what anyone deserves? What does it mean to deserve something? To deserve must mean to have earned it. Everyone will have different expectations of who you should be. Everyone will judge you differently, depending on their own rules and their own fears. This means it is literally impossible to live up to any ideal in order to deserve something, for instance love. Others judgments are useless and meaningless. You are the…

In this quest for limiting beliefs it is easy to focus only on what you see as wrong, in order to fix it. But do not forget all the wonderful traits about you that you already love. Focus on those too. Do it in a detached way, where you see these parts as a representation of who you really are, but not a definition of you. These parts may change at any time, and the loss of them would not…

Be who you are and all else will fall into place. Who you are is love. Who you are is good enough, perfection, endless beauty. There is nothing or no one else you could be that would ever be as good as this, who you truly are. Who you are is like a bespoke suit. Every single part of you is tailored just to the exact perfection that creates the beautiful you. Every minor detail, every seem, is created and…

I try to control myself but I can’t. It seems to just make it all worse. But I fear the consequences of not controlling myself!————Are you some monster to be controlled? How can that work with the monster controlling the monster? If the one controlling is as damaged as the one he is trying to control, how can the result be of any value? You must decide. Either you are good enough and do not need controlling, or you are…

You are desperately seeking validation and appreciation. How can you expect someone else to validate you when you don’t accept yourself? Because you don’t. You just don’t. You want from him what you won’t allow yourself to be. You are all the things you see in him and love, yet you cannot love these things in yourself. So you create/attract someone to you that you think will heal you, complete you, be all those thing to you that you long…

How do I find this complete me?—————————-It is already there. You are already it. Stop searching and just open your eyes. You never lost yourself, you never left. You just closed your eyes so that you could not see yourself. All you have to do to see the completion that is you, is to open your eyes again. Truly see. To see yourself as all that you are you must let go of all limitations. Let go of the belief…

I feel like I am not present in my own life—-The only way to inhabit your life is to be you. To become who you are. No one else can fill your life. Only you. Don’t be afraid to take up too much space, or to be to self centered. It’s supposed to be about you, you are the center. That is why everyone has a life of their own, there is no need to share. Be loud, be self…

You might ask « Am I enough? How can I be enough?», but that is not true. What is truth is that you are. To be enough is another definition. Enough is a meaningless label. Enough for who? How can you ever be enough for anyone else when everyone else has different desires, expectations for who you should be? You can never be enough for anyone who is not enough for themselves. So the only one you could be enough…

Transcript from Laurel Group Channeling Session: Isabelle: All right Laurel, you said this was specific for Tina. Do you want to show the nuances between my ascension, and how it differs from Tina? LAUREL: It doesn’t differ very much because it’s the same process, and you also go from unworthiness into worthiness. From not accepting who you are, into completely loving who you are. There are different nuances of what you do not accept compared to Tina. There are different…

Here is an opportunity to forgive the part of you that judges others. Because you do. It is also a way for you to forgive who you used to be. There is no need to be ashamed of who you used to be and how you used to see your reality, for she has brought you to this point.  You have a new set of rules for yourself, to be accepting and loving of all that happens, to never feel…

You feel insecure because you do not trust yourself. You worry what the future might bring, and this worry manifests into your now moment as insecurity. You are enough. You are a powerful creator. You have always been enough. You have always been powerful. Even though it feels like you are not in control of your life, you are. You are in control in every way. You inner being, who you really are, is guiding you on your path, and…

Making mistakes and the shame of others knowing I made a mistake?—-You never really make those mistakes. When you perceive you have made a mistake it is a reflection of your beliefs. The reflection is of who you believe you are. You believe you are flawed. You believe you make mistakes. You believe making mistakes is wrong and so you feel shame when others see you doing this. You believe they now can see how you are not deserving of…

I am Source. I am here to discover and be Source. Yet, I have a limited amount of love for myself and that is something I am working through. So how does one Love Thyself? It’s not my hair, my body, my skill, my wit. It’s the Source of me. How do I move forward in learning (remembering) to love myself as Source?—— It’s not your body or your skills? What do you think those parts of you are? Are…

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