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Pushing through fear is rarely the bliss you might believe it is. Pushing through fear is difficult. It’s hard and there is a push. It is a push because you need to use force. You need to force yourself to do it. Pushing through fear sounds glorious. It…

Because you have lived around other people, there are expectations about who you should be. Based on who you were in the past, there is an image for you to live up to, being the same today as you were yesterday. This is to make yourself and others…

The ideal that you have created for yourself, the idea of what it means to be worthy of love; does not exist. No one in your life is living up to that ideal. If it seems like they are, it is because you do not know them. You…

Who decides what you deserve? Who judges and decides what anyone deserves? What does it mean to deserve something? To deserve must mean to have earned it. Everyone will have different expectations of who you should be. Everyone will judge you differently, depending on their own rules and…

In this quest for limiting beliefs it is easy to focus only on what you see as wrong, in order to fix it. But do not forget all the wonderful traits about you that you already love. Focus on those too. Do it in a detached way, where…

Be who you are and all else will fall into place. Who you are is love. Who you are is good enough, perfection, endless beauty. There is nothing or no one else you could be that would ever be as good as this, who you truly are. Who…

 You believe you are incomplete. You seek to fill the void within. This void is not real, it is an illusion, and so it can not be filled. You are the bottomless pit. You have discovered this, no? Whenever you fill it with food or new clothes, the…

I try to control myself but I can’t. It seems to just make it all worse. But I fear the consequences of not controlling myself!————Are you some monster to be controlled? How can that work with the monster controlling the monster? If the one controlling is as damaged…

You are desperately seeking validation and appreciation. How can you expect someone else to validate you when you don’t accept yourself? Because you don’t. You just don’t. You want from him what you won’t allow yourself to be. You are all the things you see in him and…

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