Am I deserving of love?

Who decides what you deserve? Who judges and decides what anyone deserves? What does it mean to deserve something? To deserve must mean to have earned it. Everyone will have different expectations of who you should be. Everyone will judge you differently, depending on their own rules and their own fears. This means it is literally impossible to live up to any ideal in order … Continue reading Am I deserving of love?

Longing for that twin flame

You are desperately seeking validation and appreciation. How can you expect someone else to validate you when you don’t accept yourself? Because you don’t. You just don’t. You want from him what you won’t allow yourself to be. You are all the things you see in him and love, yet you cannot love these things in yourself. So you create/attract someone to you that you … Continue reading Longing for that twin flame