My sister keeps criticizing everything I say and do! How do I deal with her? Part II: Why do you not respect yourself? What is so wrong in you that you do not deserve to see yourself as good enough? What is so horrible in you that you do not deserve your own complete acceptance and love? Could it be that there is nothing wrong? … Continue reading When loved ones annoy you II
When I think about being free, really free, it makes me want to cry! I feel relief and want to cry, I feel happy and want to cry. Why all this crying? Crying is a release of emotions. Some things are hard to deal with in the mind only, and they leave imprints in your heart, both emotionally and physically. They leave imprints of pain … Continue reading Why do I react like this?
Society has so many rules for you. Rules to make sure you don’t believe too highly of yourself, and thus find your own power. It is easier to control a crowd who believe they are powerless, then it is to control those who know they are free and powerful. By giving in to your shame you are giving in to those who want to control … Continue reading Is shame the excuse for staying small?
I find myself looking for approval from others. How do I get rid of the ego that needs approval all the time? You don’t get rid of the ego, you accept it and make peace with it. The ascension is not about removing parts of you, it is about finding acceptance and love for ALL parts of you, so that you can own who you … Continue reading Fixing what is not broken
Here is an opportunity to forgive the part of you that judges others. Because you do. It is also a way for you to forgive who you used to be. There is no need to be ashamed of who you used to be and how you used to see your reality, for she has brought you to this point. You have a new set of … Continue reading When others break the rules
Making mistakes and the shame of others knowing I made a mistake?—-You never really make those mistakes. When you perceive you have made a mistake it is a reflection of your beliefs. The reflection is of who you believe you are. You believe you are flawed. You believe you make mistakes. You believe making mistakes is wrong and so you feel shame when others see … Continue reading Hindered by shame