Q: If I see myself as good enough, won’t life be boring? If I never try to improve, and not have anymore goals I need to achieve? A: You are attached to these goals because you use them to feel worthy. If you can only master this, get that thing done, if you can only achieve this and that, THEN you will know you are … Continue reading Proving your worth through doing
Be who you are and all else will fall into place. Who you are is love. Who you are is good enough, perfection, endless beauty. There is nothing or no one else you could be that would ever be as good as this, who you truly are. Who you are is like a bespoke suit. Every single part of you is tailored just to the … Continue reading Be who you are
Q/A about a good date that led to rejection: Dear friend, Who you are is perfect. You are complete. This belief that how others react to you somehow defines you, is an illusion. How he feels about you is all about him. If you trigger fear in him, that is about him. How you react to his reaction, now that is all about you. Isn’t … Continue reading What does rejection mean?
Worthiness is to be who you are, and to know that that is enough. To know that you, as you are in any way and in every moment, is the perfection of creation. In every moment you expand and change. Sometimes you believe you change into a better version of you, and in some moments you feel like you are not presenting your best. Sometimes … Continue reading The illusion of the journey from unworthy to worthy
Whatever you want to do you can do. You are capable of doing whatever you wish. There are no limits to what you can achieve. Instead of asking which area will make you happy, why not make yourself happy now, and do what you want to do in the moment? Happiness will not be found in the career or the activity you choose to do. … Continue reading Success and the path to happiness
You believe you are not good enough. You believe you should be different. You believe that what you can do and can’t do (well enough) means something about who you are. You believe that how you perform in certain activities means something about who you ARE. You believe that how you perform in certain activities means something about how worthy you are of love. You … Continue reading You are not who you think you are
How can I follow my passion when it doesn’t provide me with an income?————— What if the abundance issues are here to teach you not about abundance, but about not needing others approval? You fear letting down others. You fear not living up to their standards. You fear not being able to give or do for them what you believe is expected of you.Who put … Continue reading Passion but no income